The Big C

Cancer?  Chemo?


Nope . . .  CAKE.

Saturday was one of those awesome fall days that make you just stop and take a deep breath; look around you and notice how fabulous the leaves look right before they prepare to drop, feel a bit of gratitude that you can scoot around in jeans without breaking into a full sweat, hear the sound of kids playing and dogs barking and fun.

This was certainly the scene at the Gersin's Saturday.  Pizza, cake, beverages and a bevy of potluck goodies were enjoyed by many friends and family who came together to see Sheri and each other before her first round of chemo started today. I can report that a favorite party guest, Stella, was in attendance and contributed her usual good cheer to the festivities.

The backyard attraction may have been the biggest hit -- for young and old(er) alike -- coming from a mom who was so thankful that when we walked up the driveway and saw this:

why my children now get that Sheri is the coolest ever

High Henry!

Of course, THAT allowed for THIS:

A good time was had by all.  As my clan got ready to leave, Sheri's parents Jim and Carol arrived back in town;  Aunt Pat would then prepare to go, a prospect that seemed bittersweet for both Sheri and Pat.  There is a lot that is so emotional and challenging about these days, but the most compelling thing I noticed was  that cool circle of support:  As one friend or family member heads out, another comes in her place . . . and they just keep coming. You have to think that all of that love in the room is stronger than anything else.

And, the "else." Sheri started her chemo today at 9am, a process that was to take five hours.  I believe her chemo cycle will be one week on, three weeks off, for six treatments. I will post an update about today's events as soon as I hear.

~Bess K.